Trust has to be built but I find once it has the slightest crack, it can’t be repaired again
Do we automatically go into a relationship looking to fall in love? Or do some of us just see how it goes?
Well, what happens when it starts to fall apart and you’re no longer the ‘loving’ couple that you used to be? We get back up, after a few tubs of ice cream or whatever, and try to ‘fall’ again. Why do we do this to ourselves?
By the time trust has been established, you’ve already invested a lot of time and heart into this relationship. Yet, the probability is it’s just going to waste because not many things last anymore.
Ok, I’m being a bit cynical To be fair love is the best feeling, nothing else matters and your just in this happy little ‘honeymoon’ bubble. Well guess that bubble always has to pop… which isn’t always a bad thing… not always.
We all have them nights out where, the next morning you end you thinking ‘did that happen?… what the hell?’
Saying goodbye to some of my friends is bad for your health!
And your emotions.
Why is it people say EVERYTHING they never did when it’s the last time you will ever see them?!
Bit of a vague post but there you go, take from it what you will 🙂
It changes you, in both a good and bad way.
My friends have told me that not only have I become ‘soft’, but also my girlfriend has managed to dehumanize me and basically reduce me from a strong person to one that is a ‘how high?’
So, if this is true, why the hell did I let her? It must be because I love her.
I know I’ve gotten ‘soft’ but that’s because at the start I just didn’t want to control a relationship again. But now, I realise I have become to much of a pushover. Don’t know how to change back but going to have to try.
Why tell someone bad news about their relationship when you’ve just got to a party? I know she thought she was trying to help but it really didn’t. Now, i just wish I never knew, makes things more complicated. Also, it lead to an argument which had to happen.
But now, we’re not talking about it. Just nothing. So, what is there to do?
The stereotypical ones. You know. They fight, they don’t talk, the passion seems to have died. So, the question is, why on Earth do they stay together? Is it because they still love each other? Is it because they like the way their relationship is? (doubtful) Or, is it because they’ve entered the familiar rut and they feel that they’ve been in it too long and it can either; only get better or they just stay the same and that they can live with being in a non-passionate, uncommunicative relationship?
Just a question that’s been bugging me for a while…